The Question That Scares You Is the One That Will Set You Free!

What if I told you that the reason you keep attracting the wrong partners isn't because you're broken—it's because you've never been asked what you actually want?

In this episode of Love By Design, Joan explores the most confronting question in conscious dating:

What do you actually want?

Not what sounds good on paper.

Not what your mother wants for you. Not what will make you look like you have it all together.

But what YOU—in your bones, in your truth—actually desire.

This is the question high-achieving women freeze on. Because somewhere along the way, you learned that having wants made you demanding, difficult, or too much. So you performed. You adapted. You made yourself smaller.

Joan reveals why clarity is the most magnetic thing you can embody, how to distinguish between conditioned wants and authentic desires, and why getting clear on what you want is the foundation of dating by design.

This episode will show you that the work isn't to shrink your desires—it's to own them, and date from that truth.

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