It is pain and anger and all kinds of emotions.  You have been violated and someone stole your good stuff.  Well we know that sometimes two people have the same ideas at the same time, but then we also can feel it and almost smell it when someone has stolen our stuff.  It has happened to me and I have also been betrayed many times.  So you count it all JOY!  Give me a break.  Let's talk about being broken up when you have been robbed!