What Do You Want?!

What Do You Want?!

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What Do You Want?! episodes

  • Matthew Perry's Death, Ted Bundy's New Victim & Spooky Hollywood Confessions

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    Matthew Perry's tragic death. New revelations about Ted Bundy. Firsthand memories of 9/11. And Jillian discovers that everything she thought she knew might be WRONG!
    It's another wildly unpredictable episode of WHAT DO YOU WANT?! with Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie, and Nurse Melanie Mancil.
    The ladies begin with a candid conversation about the new Matthew Perry documentary, his struggles with addiction, and the circumstances surrounding his fatal ketamine overdose. They discuss the dangers of unregulated medications, questionable supplements, and the people who exploit vulnerable celebrities.
    Then Jillian dives into a newly linked Ted Bundy cold case, sparking a passionate discussion about DNA technology, murder victims, and whether families can ever truly find closure.
    In one of the episode's most moving moments, Jillian recalls broadcasting LIVE on Good Day LA as the September 11 attacks unfolded, including the terrifying realization that a second plane had struck the World Trade Center.
    But things take a decidedly hilarious turn when Jillian's stories about Victorian burial bells and the infamous gold-painted Bond girl are challenged. Suddenly, everything she believes is up for debate!
    And of course, there's plenty of talk about dating, sex, Halloween, Hollywood, and the next James Bond.
    **IN THIS EPISODE:**
    - Matthew Perry's death, ketamine, addiction, and the documentary about his final days
    - Ted Bundy and a decades-old murder investigation
    - Jillian's emotional memories of reporting live on September 11, 2001
    - Heather Locklear's Hollywood memories and behind-the-scenes stories
    - The truth behind being buried alive and Victorian coffin bells
    - The Goldfinger Bond girl myth that leaves Heather stunned
    - Dating, relationships, sex, and Halloween plans
    - The terrifying true story of Nutty Putty Cave
    - Who should be the next James Bond?
    Three women. Zero filters. Absolutely no idea where the conversation will go next.
    **WHAT DO YOU WANT?!**
    Join Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie, and Nurse Melanie Mancil for honest, hilarious, and sometimes outrageous conversations about Hollywood, relationships, women's health, pop culture, and everything life throws our way.
    Subscribe, like, and join the conversation!
    #HeatherLocklear #JillianBarberie #MatthewPerry #WhatDoYouWantPodcast #TedBundy

    1 hr 1 min
  • Sharon Tate's Sister Reveals Disturbing Details of the Manson Murders

    Sharon Tate's sister, Debra Tate, joins Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie, and Nurse Melanie Mancil for an emotional conversation about the Manson Family murders, the victims left behind, and the ongoing battle to keep convicted murderer Patricia Krenwinkel behind bars.

    More than five decades after the brutal murders of Sharon Tate and six other victims over two nights, the families are still fighting for justice.

    Debra shares deeply personal memories, disturbing details surrounding her sister's murder, and what it's been like spending decades attending parole hearings. She also discusses Charles "Tex" Watson, Leslie Van Houten's release, the continuing influence of Charles Manson, and why she believes victims' families are being forgotten.

    Jillian, who has supported Debra's advocacy for decades, discusses her own experiences attending parole hearings and the campaign to oppose the release of Manson Family members.

    Also in this episode:

    • The Victoria's Secret Fashion Show and the controversy surrounding beauty standards.

    • Elizabeth Holmes, Theranos, and the fascination with high-profile deception.

    • The growing dangers of artificial intelligence.

    • A discussion about Christina Applegate and medical misdiagnosis.

    • Could What Do You Want?! become a live show with an audience?

    • HELP SUPPORT THE VICTIMS' FAMILIES

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      Content Warning: This episode contains graphic descriptions of murder and violence that some viewers may find disturbing.

      #SharonTate #MansonFamily #DebraTate #HeatherLocklear #JillianBarberie #TrueCrime #WhatDoYouWantPodcast

      57 min
    • THE BLACK MARKET PEPTIDE SCAM! BE VERY CAREFUL

      **THE DANGEROUS TRUTH ABOUT PEPTIDES! | Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie & Nurse Mel**

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      Would you inject something into your body without knowing what's actually in it? Are black-market peptides putting people's health at risk? And what happens when the latest weight-loss and anti-aging trends get ahead of safety?
      This week on WHAT DO YOU WANT?!, Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie, and Nurse Melanie Mancil dive into the controversial world of peptides, weight-loss treatments, and the booming underground wellness industry.
      Nurse Mel shares a shocking encounter with a man who claimed to be making a million dollars a month selling inexpensive, unregulated peptides. The ladies discuss the risks of questionable products, the growing obsession with anti-aging treatments, and why knowing what you're putting into your body matters.
      But that's just the beginning!
      The conversation takes some wild turns as Heather, Jillian, and Mel tackle Elon Musk, artificial intelligence, self-driving cars, and whether technology is getting dangerously out of control.
      Jillian also shares the unbelievable story of comedian Dane Cook, whose own brother stole millions of dollars from him. Plus, the ladies weigh in on Madonna, Shane Gillis, cancel culture, and whether comedians can still say what everyone else is thinking.
      And of course, there's plenty of the hilarious, unpredictable girlfriend banter you love: Heather's jump-rope ambitions, Jillian's figure-skating comeback plans, terrifying amusement park stories, shark attacks, Malibu's changing coastline, and much more.
      **It's the conversations you have with your girlfriends when nobody's holding back.**
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      Tell us in the comments: Would you ever try peptides from an unregulated source? And what do you think about the future of AI?
      Disclaimer: This episode is for entertainment and general discussion only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice.
      #WhatDoYouWantPodcast #HeatherLocklear #JillianBarberie #Peptides #NurseMel

      1 hr 3 min
    • THE GIRLS ARE BACK TOGETHER! Jillian Returns After Hospital Scare

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      **JILLIAN BARBERIE IS BACK!** After weeks away from *What Do You Want?!*, Jillian reunites with Heather Locklear and Nurse Melanie Mancil to reveal what really happened during her frightening hospitalization.
      Jillian opens up about the excruciating pain that left her doubled over for seven hours, her emergency room experience, and the gallstones and pancreatic inflammation that landed her in the hospital. She also addresses the speculation surrounding GLP-1 medications and explains what her doctors told her.
      But with all three women finally back together, you KNOW things aren't staying serious for long!
      Heather, Jillian, and Melanie dive into some seriously wild territory, including botched executions, true crime, dangerous cosmetic procedures, outrageous airplane behavior, and some hilarious confessions about their own experiences.
      It's the reunion everyone's been waiting for — with the unfiltered conversations, unexpected revelations, and laugh-out-loud moments that make *What Do You Want?!* feel like hanging out with your girlfriends.
      **In this episode:**
      - Jillian's return and the truth about her hospitalization
      - Gallstones, pancreatic inflammation, and GLP-1 speculation
      - Heather's Hollywood stories and rock-star connections
      - A heated discussion about the death penalty and failed executions
      - Dangerous eye-color procedures and cosmetic trends
      - Shocking airplane behavior and mile-high confessions
      - More unpredictable conversations with Heather, Jillian, and Mel
      **What Do You Want?!** is hosted by Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie, and Nurse Melanie Mancil.
      Subscribe for new episodes, celebrity stories, relationships, health, pop culture, and the kind of honest, hilarious conversations you won't hear anywhere else.
      #JillianBarberie #HeatherLocklear #WhatDoYouWantPodcast #MelanieMancil #Podcast

      1 hr 4 min
    • The Questions That Made Everyone Regret This Game

      Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Melanie Mancil are playing a seemingly innocent game of questions. Then Jerry reaches for the wrong book.

      What starts with love, guilt, getting older and the meaning of life quickly turns into questions about parents, relationships and the most embarrassing moments anyone has experienced with a partner.
      Heather tells a story she probably never expected to tell on camera, Jillian gets candid about why it would take a lot for her to bring another man into her life, and Mel discovers that sometimes reading the question is more dangerous than answering it.
      Plus: hip replacement talk, the fear of getting older, family guilt, Comment Corner, Romeo and Mister, viewer questions — and another completely normal episode of What Do You Want?!
      What Do You Want?! is the unfiltered advice and conversation show with Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Melanie Mancil, where no subject is completely off limits.
      What do YOU want? Tell us in the comments.
      #HeatherLocklear #JillianBarberie #WhatDoYouWantPodcast #Relationships #Dating #WomenOver40 #Podcast00:00 What Do You Want?!
      01:18 Getting Ready for Hip Replacement
      04:43 A Major Development in Cancer Treatment
      11:30 Losing a Parent & the DNR Conversation
      13:54 Brain Health, Sugar & Epigenetics
      15:11 The Question Game Begins
      16:19 A Life Without Love Is…
      17:57 What If Heaven & Hell Were Real?
      19:52 If You Could Choose When You Die
      21:11 What Do You Feel Most Guilty About?
      24:33 If You Could Rid the World of One Thing
      26:31 What Scares You Most About Getting Older?
      28:27 Who Deserves Sainthood?
      29:00 One Animal for the Rest of Your Life
      31:00 Why Mel Reads Your Comments
      34:16 Uh-Oh… Jerry Finds the Adult Questions
      34:38 Your Parents' Love Lives?!
      35:39 Most Humiliating Moment With a Lover
      39:37 Comment Corner
      40:40 Dinner With Nurse Mel?
      41:23 Jillian on Men & Relationships
      42:06 Heather's Doppelgänger
      43:08 Romeo's Thunder Buddy
      47:38 Heather on Tommy Lee
      49:40 What Do You Want?!

      43 min
    • A Dolly Dedication, Dating, and Double Standards

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      What starts with Dolly Parton somehow turns into murder, marriage, Hollywood, aging, bad boyfriends, beauty standards, celebrity encounters, true crime, race, women’s sports—and a few opinions that definitely aren’t going to make everyone happy.

      Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Mel are back for another completely unfiltered episode of WHAT DO YOU WANT?!
      The conversation starts with Dolly: her incredible career, the story behind “I Will Always Love You,” the real inspiration for “Jolene,” her marriage, her famous collaborations and why she connected with people across generations.
      Then things take a turn.
      The women debate whether we're actually living through more violent crime—or whether social media simply makes us see every horrifying story. That leads to a heated conversation about family violence, the justice system, revenge, relationships, jealousy and why some people become dangerous when a relationship ends.
      From there, somehow we get to gray hair, Hollywood beauty standards, Whitney Houston, Anthony Hopkins, Billy Dee Williams, infamous true-crime cases, racist imagery that somehow made it into the modern marketplace, transgender athletes and the future of women’s sports.
      In other words: a perfectly normal episode of WHAT DO YOU WANT?!
      Nothing is off limits, everyone has an opinion, and disagreement is part of the show.
      What do YOU think? Tell us in the comments.
      LIKE, SUBSCRIBE and join Heather, Jillian and Mel for more honest conversations about relationships, pop culture, women’s lives, health, Hollywood and whatever else comes through the door.
      #WhatDoYouWant #HeatherLocklear #JillianBarberie #DollyParton #PopCulture #Hollywood #Relationships #WomensPodcast

      55 min
    • Postpartum Psychosis, OnlyFans & a Could There Be A Major Cancer Breakthrough? | WDYW

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      Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Melanie Mancil are back — and this conversation goes everywhere.

      The hosts take on the Lindsay Clancy case and the difficult questions surrounding postpartum depression, postpartum psychosis, personal responsibility and what happens when someone repeatedly asks for help. Would you find her guilty? The women don't necessarily agree.
      Then the conversation turns to whether social media and our always-connected lives are affecting our mental health, along with a discussion of kratom — a substance that acts on opioid receptors and is widely available despite concerns about dependence and abuse.
      Later, Jillian brings up Sopranos star Drea de Matteo's move to OnlyFans and the reported payday that helped her deal with serious financial problems. That leads to an uncensored conversation about aging, sexuality, judgment and why the hosts aren't particularly interested in letting internet comments dictate what they talk about.
      Jerry also shares the story of risking his own home to finish a movie after an investor unexpectedly pulled out — something he has in common with filmmaker and actress Jennifer Esposito.
      Plus: Bob Seger, Mick Jagger, John Mellencamp, Travis Barker, whether parents should push their kids harder, Heather's unlikely path into acting, lottery winners who lose everything, skin cancer awareness — and a promising new personalized melanoma treatment being discussed by the hosts.
      What do YOU want? Tell us in the comments.
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      Chapters
      00:00 Welcome to What Do You Want?!
      00:43 Lindsay Clancy & Postpartum Psychosis
      02:16 Heather's Experience With Postpartum Depression
      05:04 Who Is Responsible When Someone Is Crying for Help?
      09:27 Are We Becoming More Mentally Ill?
      13:03 The Kratom Conversation
      16:46 Surprise Call With Contest Winner Karen
      19:49 What's Inside Karen's Prize Package?
      23:50 Are Your 60s Better Than Your 50s?
      24:45 Drea de Matteo, OnlyFans & Financial Survival
      27:33 The Hosts Respond to the Comments
      29:10 Momentous
      30:33 Quince
      32:24 Jennifer Esposito & Jerry's Movie Financing Story
      33:53 Jillian's Bob Seger Story
      37:01 Are Aging Rock Stars Still Worth Seeing Live?
      38:29 Travis Barker, Tommy Lee & Raising Talented Kids
      39:22 Should Parents Push Their Children Harder?
      41:35 How Heather Got Into Acting
      43:03 A Promising Cancer Treatment Breakthrough
      45:30 Melanoma & Skin Cancer Warning Signs
      47:53 Why Lottery Winners Lose Everything
      50:14 Check Your Skin
      50:58 Goodnight
      #WhatDoYouWant #HeatherLocklear #JillianBarberie #PostpartumPsychosis #LindsayClancy #MentalHealth #DreaDeMatteo #OnlyFans #Melanoma #CancerResearch #WomensHealth #Parenting #Podcast

      52 min
    • The Dark Side of Being Famous | Heather Locklear & Jillian Barberie

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      Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Melanie Mancil are back — and this conversation goes places.

      After talking about the wild internet rumors, fake celebrity photos and AI-generated stories that are becoming almost impossible to separate from reality, the ladies get surprisingly candid about what being famous actually feels like.
      Heather looks back at the height of her fame in the ’80s and ’90s, Jillian remembers watching Kardashian-level celebrity change the game, and Melanie wants to know what goes through your head when you walk into a room knowing everybody may recognize you.
      Then things get darker: unwanted attention, obsessive fans, frightening encounters and the security problems that can come with being recognizable. Heather shares stories from her years with Tommy Lee, while Jillian recalls advice Sandra Bullock once gave her about setting boundaries with fans.
      The conversation also turns to sobriety, addiction, whether everyone with a drinking problem needs complete abstinence, true crime, the Idaho murders — and the controversy surrounding the granddaughter of Charles Manson.
      In other words… a completely normal episode of What Do You Want?!
      Hosted by Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Melanie Mancil (RN, BSN).
      Tell us in the comments:
      Would you actually want to be famous?
      And what do YOU want the ladies to talk about next?
      The fame discussion is especially strong because Heather describes simply staying present with the people she was with rather than obsessing over everyone looking at her, while Jerry talks about wanting fame at 20 and then becoming deeply uncomfortable when it actually arrived.
      Chapters
      00:00 Welcome Back to WDYW
      00:39 Surviving the Opening Night Party
      03:22 Warning: WDYW Imposters & Scammers
      04:28 Why People Can’t Find WDYW on YouTube
      04:42 The Fake “Heather Locklear House”
      05:20 Can You Believe Anything You See Online?
      07:14 What Does Being Famous Actually Feel Like?
      07:36 Heather & John Mellencamp
      08:19 Cancer, Gratitude & Appreciating Life
      11:15 Melanie Gets Recognized at the Hollywood Bowl
      12:06 Jerry’s 15 Minutes of Fame
      12:41 Heather, Tommy Lee & Bobbie Brown
      13:15 Why Being Famous Can Cost You Money
      15:13 When Kardashian-Level Fame Changed Everything
      16:01 “Fame Loves Fame”
      16:55 Sandra Bullock’s Advice to Jillian
      18:12 Heather on Living With Massive Fame
      19:39 Wanting Fame — Until You Actually Get It
      20:12 When Fans Cross the Line
      20:59 Heather’s Stalker Story
      23:53 Did We Ever Finish the Fame Conversation?
      24:37 What Everyone Is Watching
      26:14 The Idaho Murders
      31:49 Drinking, Sobriety & Addiction
      32:10 Armie Hammer, Rehab & Addiction
      33:00 What Actually Makes Someone an Alcoholic?
      34:42 When One Drink Becomes a Disaster
      36:02 Is Abstinence the Only Answer?
      50:00 Charles Manson’s Granddaughter Documentary
      50:44 Jillian Reached Out to Her
      51:28 “She’s Marketing Herself”
      51:39 Could Deborah Tate Come on WDYW?**

      59 min
    • WDYW LIVE! Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie & Nurse Mel Go Unfiltered

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      WDYW is LIVE — and anything goes.
      Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Melanie Mancil take What Do You Want?! in front of a live studio audience for the very first time, taped August 7, 2026 during the grand opening celebration of Wow & Flutter Westwood Studios in Los Angeles.
      What starts as the story of how WDYW came together quickly turns into one of our most unpredictable conversations yet. The ladies debate OnlyFans and whether it's empowering or exploitative, Heather looks back on hosting Saturday Night Live, Jillian and Heather reveal their experiences with 5150 holds, and the audience gets the chance to ask the questions they've always wanted answered.
      Then things REALLY go off the rails.
      Heather gets asked about her favorite lover. The ladies reveal some of their biggest regrets, play a dangerous round of F/Marry/Kill, talk peptides and the latest wellness craze, and tackle some surprisingly serious questions about mental health, motherhood, overcoming adversity and what they're most proud of in their lives.
      Nurse Mel also shares the remarkable story of walking away from drugs and a destructive life at 18 years old, putting herself through nursing school and never looking back.
      And finally, we announce the winner of our WDYW viewer giveaway — LIVE in front of the audience.
      Thank you to everyone who came out to celebrate this incredible night with us, including those who drove — and even flew — to Los Angeles to be there.
      What Do You Want?! is hosted by Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Melanie Mancil.
      00:00 WDYW Goes LIVE!
      01:09 How What Do You Want?! Started
      03:04 Why We Created WDYW
      04:02 Life, Freedom & Women Over 40
      06:18 The OnlyFans Debate Begins
      07:45 Empowerment or Exploitation?
      09:38 When Does It Go Too Far?
      11:07 Heather Remembers Chris Farley & SNL
      12:17 Celebrity Culture & Compassion
      13:33 Mental Health and the 5150 Club
      15:47 Do Heather, Jillian & Mel Really Get Along?
      17:12 Audience Questions Begin
      18:11 Heather Gets Asked About Her Favorite Lover
      19:13 The Ladies Reveal Their Biggest Regrets
      21:26 The Audience Starts a Dangerous Game
      24:04 Jerry Gets Put on the Spot
      26:12 Peptides, Wellness & the Latest Health Craze
      29:33 A Serious Audience Question
      30:56 What Are You Most Proud Of?
      32:33 Nurse Mel Reveals Her Remarkable Past
      34:28 WDYW Giveaway
      36:27 And the Winner Is...
      36:53 Thank You From WDYW
      Like, subscribe and tell us What do YOU want? in the comments.
      #WhatDoYouWant #HeatherLocklear #JillianBarberie #WDYW #Podcast

      40 min
    • When It's Time to Walk Away From a Friendship

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      Sometimes losing a friendship hurts more than a breakup.

      This week on What Do You Want?!, Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Mel have an honest conversation about ending long-term friendships, taking accountability, "spiritual narcissism," forgiveness, and knowing when it's finally time to walk away.

      The conversation takes unexpected turns into celibacy, dating after 50, women-only communities, cosmetic procedures, social media culture, viral animal videos, and why real conversations between people with different opinions matter more than ever.

      Join the discussion and tell us...

      Have you ever ended a friendship that felt like losing family?

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      00:00 Welcome

      00:20 Losing a Friendship Can Feel Like a Death
      03:25 Knowing When It's Time to Walk Away
      05:25 What Makes a Real Friend?
      09:35 Heather on Ending Relationships for Good
      10:40 Women-Only Communities After 50
      13:55 Is Celibacy Becoming More Common?
      16:20 What Would You Change About Yourself?
      17:45 Plastic Surgery & Aging Gracefully
      20:30 Finding Common Ground Despite Politics
      23:20 Jillian's Upcoming Hip Surgery
      27:30 The Fascination with Dangerous Animals
      32:40 SeaWorld, Wildlife & Human Nature
      38:10 Introducing the New Comment Corner

      48 min

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