Years ago the greater management consultant Peter Drucker and come to the conclusion that he could not help a leader or a manager of a major organization unless that person could answer the question, "how do you want to be remembered."  I just discovered that I lost a good friend who actually helped us begin a radio program in Tucson Arizona.  Life was rugged for him at the end, but I remember him well for a number of good things he did for me and things he taught me.