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Ever gotten a "dress casual" invite and thought "what does that even MEAN?" Or worse—shown up to a "festive" party in sequins only to realize everyone else interpreted it as ugly sweaters? Same. Holiday dress codes are confusing, ambiguous, and honestly? Half the time hosts don't even know what they're asking for. We're decoding every dress code from casual to white tie so you never have to panic-Google "what to wear" again.

Stop stressing about what to wear to holiday parties—hit subscribe and get the breakdown of every dress code plus scripts to ask hosts when you're confused (because "festive" means nothing).

Note: This is a re-aired episode with timeless advice about dress codes. Whether you're going to holiday parties, weddings, or any formal event, these guidelines still apply.

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Who Should Listen

This episode is for anyone who's ever shown up overdressed, underdressed, or just plain confused about what "dressy casual" means, and hosts who want to stop torturing their guests with ambiguous dress codes.

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What You Get In This Episode

• What casual, dressy casual, business, cocktail, semi-formal, black tie optional, black tie, and white tie actually mean (with real examples), and how fabrics, straps, and structure change formality levels
• Quick rules for shoes, socks, and seasonal accessories that matter
• Why "festive" and "holiday" dress codes are traps—and what to do about them
• Simple scripts to ask the host about expectations without feeling awkward
• The party-hopping rule
• PLUS! Tips for hosts: how to write clear invitations with examples and tone-setting language

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Bios

Caitlin brings her signature blend of humor and practical advice to help overwhelmed moms navigate the challenges of adulting—including not showing up to parties in the wrong outfit. With Jenny, who loves sequins, understands formality levels, and won't judge you for asking "wait, what does tropical black tie mean?"

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Sources & Mentions

• Decoding Invitation Dress Codes | By Meg Hemphill for HuffPost Life
• Attire Guide: Dress Codes from Casual to White Tie Formal | Emily Post

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