What does following Jesus actually cost — and what does it really look like in everyday life?

In this episode of Pastors' Hangover, the team wrestles with one of the most challenging and misunderstood parts of faith: the difference between simply following rules and truly having a relationship with God. What happens when someone realizes they’ve built their life on religion instead of relationship? How do you rebuild a foundation when you discover it was never strong to begin with?

The conversation digs into Jesus’ words about taking up your cross and following Him, unpacking what that actually means and what it doesn’t mean. The pastors discuss why Jesus seems to have more fans than followers, how American Christianity compares to Christianity around the world, and why comfort can sometimes keep us from true discipleship.

They also get practical, answering what a real, concrete step of trusting God’s blueprint for your life can look like, and how obedience often costs more than we expect but leads to something far greater.

If you’ve ever wondered whether your faith is built on habit, comfort, or genuine surrender, this episode will challenge you to rethink what it really means to follow Jesus.

What would you say to someone who realizes their faith was just rule-following, not relationship?

How do you rebuild your life when you discover your foundation is weak?

Does American Christianity create more fans than followers of Jesus?

How does Christianity in the U.S. compare to Christianity around the world?

What does a real, concrete step of trusting God’s blueprint look like?

What does “take up your cross” actually cost us, and what does it not mean?

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