Jake reflects on lessons from his father—leading with heart, embracing vulnerability, and making a difference without seeking credit. Nick shares his immigrant father's blueprint: being a man means contributing more than you take, not from unworthiness, but from trust that giving creates its own rewards.

They challenge the "Happy wife, happy life" mentality, clarifying that loving the relationship more than yourself isn't about self-betrayal—it's about full participation. Jake reveals how wedding industry norms expect grooms to be disengaged, and why he's intentionally showing up differently.

Their conclusion? Being a man in 2026 means being fully engaged—present, responsible, heart-centered, and actively shaping your experience rather than passively following someone else's script.

🔑 Topics Covered

• What fathers teach us about masculinity (for better or worse)
• Contributing more than you take vs. playing victim
• The difference between healthy giving and self-betrayal
• Why full participation matters in relationships and major life moments
• Coming from the heart vs. coming from unworthiness

💡 Reflective Prompt: Are you fully participating in your life—or are you following a script written by someone else?

📍 Links + Resources

• Jake's website: www.jakefishbein.com
• Nick's website: www.coachnick.com
• The Arena Men's Group: www.arenamensgroup.com
• Novel "The Men's Group: A Novel of Messy Friendships" (June 9, 2026)

💼 Connect: Jake Fishbein & Nick Papadopoulos on LinkedIn

With Love, Jake & Nick