For two decades, Rhinebeck resident Eric Spiegel, president of Rhinebeck at Home, served as caregiver for three loved ones—his father, his stepmother, and his close friend, Henry—as each experienced cognitive decline. “Coming to terms with the needs of my loved ones meant putting large parts of my life on hold,” he said, “dropping my own needs and interests for others.”  Managing memory loss is a challenge for both partners in a long-term relationship, testing the bonds of love and patience. (Photo by Tony Adamis) Each situation demanded constant vigilance, as both of his parents were deteriorating at the same time....

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