What happens when you start to reject a narcassists. You see a narcissists don't like being rejected or abandoned. They fly into rage and punish you. Especially if you have children. When. You tell a narcassists your.leaving them they will say go ahead the kids and I will be fine without you. They will start love bombing you if you are unable to.get away. You see when you reject a narcassists. You are rejecting the false self the ha e so carefully created to impress you. When you reject that false self it destroys their entire reason for existing. And the false self cannot survive on its own. It's completely dependent on self approval and attention of others. Like a vampire when rejecting a narcassusts they are forced to confront their own emptiness and nothing scares then more than that. They will fight tooth and nail to avoid even if they have to destroy you. If your thinking about leaving a narcassists. It's best to go no contact. If you have children. And in the court system it's best to ask the courts if their is an app you can go through to communicate in that way the courts can see what the narcassists is saying to you,