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Episode 26_ “What I See is Not Always What’s Real”
We talk about the following:
Middle-class upbringing with a step-father with anger issues—developed the notion of the importance of figuring out where you want to go in life.
“You don’t come back from combat the same, regardless of what kind of experience you have, it opens your mind to other things. It taught me that what I see is not always what’s real.”
James’ real-estate company is formed around helping veterans and active-duty in the JBLM area (south of Seattle) get in and out of the real estate market with ease, and profit.
Appearance is only one aspect of who we are, but how can we start looking past appearances?
What responsibility to we have when we choose to ‘look’ a certain way?
People can manipulate things they say, but now how they act in the moment—that’s the best way to determine a person’s character.
It’s so simple to rush to judgement—but it’s almost never true
Once we are aware that our ‘look’ might induce trauma responses in other people, what do we do about that? –If at a snapshot you are a trigger to someone, well, how do you calm down a trigger? Have a conversation! Every time!
Once you’ve closed yourself off to taking in new information, the conversation is over.
“I always ask myself, am I making any assumptions that could stop this conversation from going forward?”
James’ #1 Culture-Hack: Trust, but verify. What you see is not always real!
About Our Guest:
James’ Social Media
Links:
- OperationRedDot.com
- https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesmarszalek/
- https://www.facebook.com/Mad.Hatter87
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesmarszalek/
About Our Host:
Daniella Mestyanek (Mest-aa-neck) Young is an author, TEDx speaker and Organizational Culture-Hacker with fascinating life story and important insights into culture, socialization and group behavior. Daniella is the President of DMY Enterprises and the co-founder of cavnessHR.
Daniella was born and raised a third-generation member of the infamous religious cult the Children of God, known for promoting religious prostitution, pedophilia for God, and the end of the world. At 15, she escaped that life, moving to America and eventually becoming a US ARMY Captain.
During her journey, she was college valedictorian, served as part of the first group of women to conduct deliberate ground combat operations with all-male troops, deployed twice to Afghanistan where she also competed in, and won, a marathon, received the Presidential Volunteer Service Medal from President Obama personally, married an Army helicopter pilot, is raising a trilingual little girl in Seattle, WA and is hard at work on her forthcoming memoir, Uncultured.
Daniella’s Social Media:
https://daniellamestyanekyoung.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/daniellamyoung
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellamyoung_/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniella-young/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/daniellamestyanekyoung
Sign up to join the waitlist for my memoir, UNCULTURED at https://daniellamestyanekyoung.com/
About Our Sponsor
cavnessHR understands that time feels like the most limited resource in business. Small business leaders spend 25% of their time on HR and compliance matters, instead of directly increasing the bottom line with business growth. With cavnessHR, for a small monthly fee you can forego hiring an in-house HR team, and stop worrying about potential HR and compliance issues. With cavnessHR you have 24/7 access to real, live experts to handle everything from onboarding employees in a one-stop shop portal, advising you on HR laws, and even leadership and workplace culture seminars and workshops. In a constantly shifting corporate culture landscape, keep laser focus on your business with those cavnessHR Hours Recovered, while we take care of your HR.
https://www.cavnessHR.com
@cavnessHR across social media
See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
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By Daniella YoungEpisode 26_ “What I See is Not Always What’s Real”
We talk about the following:
Middle-class upbringing with a step-father with anger issues—developed the notion of the importance of figuring out where you want to go in life.
“You don’t come back from combat the same, regardless of what kind of experience you have, it opens your mind to other things. It taught me that what I see is not always what’s real.”
James’ real-estate company is formed around helping veterans and active-duty in the JBLM area (south of Seattle) get in and out of the real estate market with ease, and profit.
Appearance is only one aspect of who we are, but how can we start looking past appearances?
What responsibility to we have when we choose to ‘look’ a certain way?
People can manipulate things they say, but now how they act in the moment—that’s the best way to determine a person’s character.
It’s so simple to rush to judgement—but it’s almost never true
Once we are aware that our ‘look’ might induce trauma responses in other people, what do we do about that? –If at a snapshot you are a trigger to someone, well, how do you calm down a trigger? Have a conversation! Every time!
Once you’ve closed yourself off to taking in new information, the conversation is over.
“I always ask myself, am I making any assumptions that could stop this conversation from going forward?”
James’ #1 Culture-Hack: Trust, but verify. What you see is not always real!
About Our Guest:
James’ Social Media
Links:
- OperationRedDot.com
- https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesmarszalek/
- https://www.facebook.com/Mad.Hatter87
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamesmarszalek/
About Our Host:
Daniella Mestyanek (Mest-aa-neck) Young is an author, TEDx speaker and Organizational Culture-Hacker with fascinating life story and important insights into culture, socialization and group behavior. Daniella is the President of DMY Enterprises and the co-founder of cavnessHR.
Daniella was born and raised a third-generation member of the infamous religious cult the Children of God, known for promoting religious prostitution, pedophilia for God, and the end of the world. At 15, she escaped that life, moving to America and eventually becoming a US ARMY Captain.
During her journey, she was college valedictorian, served as part of the first group of women to conduct deliberate ground combat operations with all-male troops, deployed twice to Afghanistan where she also competed in, and won, a marathon, received the Presidential Volunteer Service Medal from President Obama personally, married an Army helicopter pilot, is raising a trilingual little girl in Seattle, WA and is hard at work on her forthcoming memoir, Uncultured.
Daniella’s Social Media:
https://daniellamestyanekyoung.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/daniellamyoung
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellamyoung_/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniella-young/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/daniellamestyanekyoung
Sign up to join the waitlist for my memoir, UNCULTURED at https://daniellamestyanekyoung.com/
About Our Sponsor
cavnessHR understands that time feels like the most limited resource in business. Small business leaders spend 25% of their time on HR and compliance matters, instead of directly increasing the bottom line with business growth. With cavnessHR, for a small monthly fee you can forego hiring an in-house HR team, and stop worrying about potential HR and compliance issues. With cavnessHR you have 24/7 access to real, live experts to handle everything from onboarding employees in a one-stop shop portal, advising you on HR laws, and even leadership and workplace culture seminars and workshops. In a constantly shifting corporate culture landscape, keep laser focus on your business with those cavnessHR Hours Recovered, while we take care of your HR.
https://www.cavnessHR.com
@cavnessHR across social media
See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.