The Affirming Village Podcast

What If the Behavior Isn’t the Problem?


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In this powerful episode of The Affirming Village Podcast, Dr. Destiny Huff and Lisa Wright challenge the compliance-first narrative that often traps neurodivergent learners. When a student is labeled as "non-compliant" or "defiant," we rarely stop to ask: What are the barriers to access in this moment? 


Instead of viewing behavior as a character flaw, we unpack how it is often the first sign that a student’s environment is failing them. From sensory needs to communication tools, we’re shifting the lens from control to curiosity.


Inside this episode, we explore:


  • The Compliance Trap: Why framing behavior as a "compliance issue" ignores the actual barriers to learning.
  • The Home vs. School Disconnect: How environments with sensory supports, like swings and movement breaks, change the "behavior" we see.
  • AAC as an Access Hill: Why a "robust" IEP is meaningless if we aren't granular about who is programming the device and how we consider motor planning.
  • Curriculum Barriers: The critical need for academic tools on AAC devices—not just basic icons—to allow for meaningful participation.
  • Labels for Unreliable Speakers: Why minimally speaking students are frequently misidentified as "behavior issues" simply because they lack access to communication.
  • The Power of Curiosity: Simple shifts for educators and parents to identify triggers, like new academic concepts, before dysregulation starts.


Routines should support us, not control us. If we aren’t thoughtfully considering how a student accesses their education, we aren’t teaching—we’re just demanding compliance.


Listen now on Spotify and join the village as we advocate for access, dignity, and true autonomy.


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The Affirming Village PodcastBy Dr. Destiny Huff & Lisa Baskin Wright