Dear Ones, I’m in Mexico for the holidays teaching art and I was thinking of you and our struggles to become. Here’s an approach I learned from my 2 mamas.

* Why asking if you are good enough won’t work out

* How our environment keeps us grasping for belonging

* Considering your ideal question for you as authentic to you

* My proposal of a better question

And yes…there are wrong questions and mistakes.

Loving you

Blessings Shiloh Sophia

Ps: pausing on my memoir for the holidays because it’s a little depressing in this juncture. I’ve recorded the next episode but each time I try to push publish I just can’t yet.

pps this is a photo of me in the hammock yesterday contemplating my ideal question

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