What constitutes a healthy from a toxic expectation? Here are 7 guidelines covering ability to deliver, the power of a process, fairness and justice, and a commitment to one’s conviction. Note that a heathy expectation has the power to yield amazing results! . “Treat a man as he is and he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he can and should be and he will become as he can and should be.” - Stephen R. Covey