There is plenty of online material that states that the type of men that Black Women are known for dating are thugs. But hardly any of the material go into detail, or educates our young Black Women on "why" they shouldn't date a certain kind of guy. Furthermore, what ramifications that will be placed not only upon herself; but her children's lives as well.

As women, we can tend to have a," we can fix a man" mentality, when in actuality we need to accept a man for who he is without having unrealistic expectations of trying to make him fit into what we want him to be. And if we can't accept who they are- learning to have the confidence, courage, and self esteem to walk away.

We also must change the things that we may  find "attractive" if we want a successful family.

When the Black Woman truly believes she deserves better- it will indeed motivate the Black Man to become better!

~ The Truth with Trinity~`

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