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Is Fairness Enough? Tit-for-tat is mathematically elegant and emotionally satisfying: you get what you give, and nobody gets taken advantage of. Game theory even proves it works — under the right conditions. This episode examines what those conditions are, where they break down, and what happens when the logic of reciprocity runs loose in marriages, workplaces, social media, and political life. Fairness stabilizes systems that are already functional. It cannot heal systems that are broken, generate trust where none exists, or move a relationship past the point where both people are waiting for the other to go first. We ask whether the Silver Rule — do unto others as they do unto you — is wisdom or a ceiling we've mistaken for a standard.

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