What is Trauma Bonding...

Accepting blame for abuse.
Feeling you deserve the abuse
Justifying the abuse
Believeing you can change your abuser
Excusing the abuse 

How to Prevent Trauma Bonding
Take your time when getting to know someone and learn about their past
Look out for the erd flags and signs of abusive behavior
Be sure your boundaries are respected
Make sure what you hear is  really what you get...... 
And that no hidden truths start popping up.
Watch out for som;eone who is overly charming or showers you with excessive attention early on.
Be wary of someone who says that all of their ex-partners are crazy
Remember that if osmeone seems too good to be true, a good chance they are not being  entirely real with you...

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