If there's one thing Shani Silver wants you to know it's that single people are valid and completely capable of enjoying infinitely amazing lives.  But she hasn't always felt this way.  For years this podcaster and humor essayist believed that being single made her incomplete and that her life wouldn't truly start until she found her person.  Now, she is still single but her life?  Oh, it's happening!  Shani knows how difficult it is to not  have the relationship status you so desperately want.  But she's also committed to changing the negative narratives around not being in a couple, and redefining what it really means to be single.