This is a huge debate in the mom world. We are constantly being told that one way is better than the other. Either you're a stay at home mom being shamed for staying home & being lazy OR you're a working mom being shamed for not spending enough time with your kids. 
The comments. The judgement. The shaming. Its everywhere. 

Here, I share my opinion on the topic as I know what its like to be both a stay at home mom & a working mom. I've lived both sides of the coin & I know what its like to feel shame and guilt on both ends. 

You can never win. Its impossible to please everyone. Some moms can be stay at home moms & that's what works for them. Other moms love being working moms & THAT'S what works for them. & a lot of us have no choice but to work because, well - life! 

Just remember, no matter what kind of mom you are, no matter what decisions you make for your kids.... you will never be able to please everyone. Not every other mom out there is going to agree with what you choose to do with YOUR life. So might as well live it, right?

YOU are what's best for your kid. Any choice you make for your family, yourself & your kids is the right decision. Embrace all aspects of who you are as a mom. Don't shame yourself or feel guilty for being home with your kids or working to provide for your kids. Whichever you choose - IT IS OKAY! 

Just because you stay home - does not make you a bad mom. 
Just because you work - does not make you a bad mom. 
Embrace the season in which you are in right now & have the confidence in knowing that you are the best mom for your kid. 

You are conquering. I am conquering. We are all conquering motherhood. 

Enjoy!

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