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On this episode, Raul and Vivian focus on two interrelated points. The first comes from a situation the two were recently in where the family went to the beach. Raul volunteered to get a beach umbrella, but by the time he got to the store, he kept on buying more and more things that were less and less useful. Raul explores the pattern and trigger that led him to take that action, and specifically his need for approval. The second point comes from a question from a viewer. The viewer feels ignored when her husband sits down and becomes a couch potato. Raul and Vivian discuss how masculine and feminine energy play into different methods of sedating yourself when you want to quiet your mind. TV, drugs, and alcohol can be a way of quieting the mind that aren’t as healthy as, say, meditation or exercise. What should the woman do to communicate with her husband that she feels ignored, and what can the two of them do together to improve their relationship.
0:42 Intro, welcome
2:00 How do we adapt to post-lockdown life?
2:20 Power days, calibration days, reset/recharge days, and hybrid days 3:25 the more we pile on, the more depleted we feel
3:50 Raul and Vivian went to a hotel in NJ to go to the beach
5:00 Raul buys a sun umbrella. Then he buys something else. And something else.
6:20 ...But did Vivian use it?
8:35 Was it necessary for Raul to do all that?
10:05 You get a hit of dopamine from gratitude
10:50 Question of the day - My husband is addicted to TV and social media
13:15 The lengths Raul went to to watch TV when they first moved in together
14:50 The pattern is that the person is trying to turn down the noise in his mind\
15:55 Women want attention all the time. Most of the time.
16:54 Raul recommends finding an alternative to TV that works for both of you 18:09 Ask what’s useful or not useful, not good or bad 18:50 You give your all outside the home, so what do you bring back home with you?
21:40 Men can do “nothing,” women are constantly looking for “something.”
22:40 Find what influences her or him
23:42 You can change the energy of the room when someone comes in 24:41 Improvement starts with communication
26:21 Wrap up
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By Raul VillacisOn this episode, Raul and Vivian focus on two interrelated points. The first comes from a situation the two were recently in where the family went to the beach. Raul volunteered to get a beach umbrella, but by the time he got to the store, he kept on buying more and more things that were less and less useful. Raul explores the pattern and trigger that led him to take that action, and specifically his need for approval. The second point comes from a question from a viewer. The viewer feels ignored when her husband sits down and becomes a couch potato. Raul and Vivian discuss how masculine and feminine energy play into different methods of sedating yourself when you want to quiet your mind. TV, drugs, and alcohol can be a way of quieting the mind that aren’t as healthy as, say, meditation or exercise. What should the woman do to communicate with her husband that she feels ignored, and what can the two of them do together to improve their relationship.
0:42 Intro, welcome
2:00 How do we adapt to post-lockdown life?
2:20 Power days, calibration days, reset/recharge days, and hybrid days 3:25 the more we pile on, the more depleted we feel
3:50 Raul and Vivian went to a hotel in NJ to go to the beach
5:00 Raul buys a sun umbrella. Then he buys something else. And something else.
6:20 ...But did Vivian use it?
8:35 Was it necessary for Raul to do all that?
10:05 You get a hit of dopamine from gratitude
10:50 Question of the day - My husband is addicted to TV and social media
13:15 The lengths Raul went to to watch TV when they first moved in together
14:50 The pattern is that the person is trying to turn down the noise in his mind\
15:55 Women want attention all the time. Most of the time.
16:54 Raul recommends finding an alternative to TV that works for both of you 18:09 Ask what’s useful or not useful, not good or bad 18:50 You give your all outside the home, so what do you bring back home with you?
21:40 Men can do “nothing,” women are constantly looking for “something.”
22:40 Find what influences her or him
23:42 You can change the energy of the room when someone comes in 24:41 Improvement starts with communication
26:21 Wrap up
Subscribe to my channel:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCCIM...
Follow us:
Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/godmoneypurpose
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/047uSAE...
Vivian Villacis:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vivianvilla...
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/vivianpassion
Raul Villacis:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raultheedge/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RaulTheEDGE/
Website: https://raulvillacis.com/