The author lets you on what he believes is the secret of being a nice guy. This is his opinion on what he believe might help people find balance in their lives. He gives details about himself that allows the audience to truly understand who he his, his success and his failures. It relates back to his episode 5 called “Balance” since all the episodes are essentially related. In the end he asks the audience to look at themselves and ask the question “what makes you a nice guy/girl?”