Two people I care a lot about recently had a horrible fight, one that they can’t even begin to get over. What makes me sad is how we deal with a situation like this (our ‘past’) when something bad has happened. Almost everyone I know spends so much of their time digging in that past trying to figure out why whatever happened ‘happened’. It is like trying to put the toothpaste back in the tube. You never will figure it out.