After two years of healing post-divorce, I'm preparing to enter the world of dating apps for the first time in over a decade. Having never really used dating apps before (my last experience was with OkCupid!), I turned to my community for guidance on which apps to use and what questions they ask potential partners. The response was incredible - not just in volume but in the thoughtfulness behind the questions. We explore how dating apps have evolved, which platforms are most popular now, and dive deep into the questions that can help us date more intentionally. From verifying someone's actual relationship status to understanding their values, these questions reflect a collective wisdom about dating with boundaries and self-respect. Whether you're actively dating or just curious about how dating has changed, this episode offers insights into approaching relationships with intention and authenticity.

Most Common Themes in Questions

- Relationship Status Verification

- Political Alignment & Values

Therapy & Emotional Intelligence

Family Planning

Past Relationship Insights

Notable Apps & Features

- Hinge

- Bumble

- Coffee Meets Bagel app

- The League app

Journal Prompts & Discussion Questions

- What qualities would you confidently claim in yourself when dating?

- What are your non-negotiables in early dating conversations?

- How do you maintain your authenticity while getting to know someone new?

- What would make you feel empowered in your dating journey?

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