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What to do if something doesn't feel right when marketing yourself + expanding your audience?


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"What are your values + are you willing to compromise your values for views?"


There is no guarantee that the views translate into cash. The point is hedging your bets and making your emotional connection with them strong. I care more than others, this is my GIFT. Because that customer or client is still going to purchase a solution from somewhere. Let it be from someone who cares the most.


I still have moments where I let my outer world shake my inner world. But I am human, then I go and I re-align myself.


In this episode I talk about a situtationship (situational relationship) I was in that had some constricting feelings come up for me. I was approached about a podcast guest in which I was so honored and flabbergasted that he was so famous and wanted to be on my show. I scheduled several appointments that somehow didn't align with this person's schedule. When I asked for my needs and shared that I didn't really feel like this person was interested in being a guest on my podcast or that it wasn't a priority there response was "how many viewers do you have". When my response was given, what I received was "let's just table this, sorry for wasting your time" I took that as your not important enough, or have a big enough follower count for me to make you a priority. So here I teach the 6 steps to what I do and tell my clients if something doesn't feel right when your marketing yourself or growing your audience.


In this episode we touch on:


  • What lessons can you learn when something doesn't work out the way you think it will
  • How can you use this to support you in the future?
  • How will this experience change how I offer to be a guest on other's podcasts
  • View's doesn't mean someone cares

  • 6 steps to what I do and tell my clients if something doesn't feel right when your marketing yourself or growing your audience

    1. Acknowledge your feelings (No shoving, your feelings are valid)

    2. Where do the feels come from (current or childhood wound)

    3. What are the feelings?

    4. Ask for your needs to be met (don't assume everyone is like you)

    5. Respond instead of reacting

    6. No need to be the I told you so person )they will learn, doesn't mean you have to point the finger)


    Takeaway + Action:

    Use an experience that doesn't go the way you want + choose to find a lesson in it for you and for someone else.

    Write out what is your non-negotiable for you in wanting to reach a bigger audience + growing?


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