"Keep your eyes open before marriage; half-shut afterwards," advised Ben Franklin many years ago.  Keeping your eyes open before you are married is pretty good business. The fact is that most people don't really know the person they meet at the marriage altar, and then after the honeymoon, wake up and say, "This is not the person I thought I was marrying." Before you say, "Yes!" to marriage, ask yourself ten questions which can well help you determine if your relationship has what it takes to make a good marriage.  If you are married, working through these ten issues can make yours a much better marriage.