It isn't always the case, but each member of your family needs something particular from the other members of their family and doesn't get it. Parents need honour from their kids. Wives need love from their husbands. Husbands need respect from their wives. Kids need patience from their parents. Well, we all need all those things, but those are the things that we often lack but desperately need.

Everyone in your family needs love, honour, respect and patience.

Ephesians 5:33-6:4