So this turned out to be a bit more than a minisode because it is over 20 minutes long but this thought-provoking question by @kitten4_daddy gave me quite a bit to talk about and then afterwards I realised I had missed out some important points and so I came back and recorded more, including Michael in the conversation as he thoughts from a D-type's perspective seemed really relevant. So bonus longer episode this week inspired by this question...

Do you have any tips to help understand people on the other side of the slash?

Eg: as an s-type I still find I question what my Tops get out of it & feel I should do/be more/different because they can't *really* be enjoying it.

Or is this a me issue?!

Links from this episode

The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren

Domsigns

Loving BDSM

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