In this deeply personal and heartfelt episode, Raven opens up about one of the most powerful motivators in life: knowing your why. Through raw storytelling and honest reflection, Raven shares the transformational journey she’s been on since becoming a mother—and how her daughter became her driving force for healing, growth, and purpose.

She explores how generational trauma, heartbreak, and setbacks like job loss led her to a breaking point—but also sparked a breakthrough. From surviving to thriving, Raven credits her daughter and her late grandmother as her "whys"—the sources of strength that keep her going when life gets tough.

If you've ever found yourself asking “What am I even doing this for?”, this episode will hit home. Whether you're a parent, healing from your past, or just trying to figure out your next step, this one’s for you.

Key Takeaways:

• Your "why" keeps you grounded. When life feels like it’s falling apart, your why gives you something to hold onto.

• Parenthood can be a mirror. Raven’s daughter became her reason to change her life and show up better, even when it was hard.

• Breaking cycles takes courage. From single motherhood to limiting beliefs about worth and work, she’s committed to ending what no longer serves her family.

• Legacy matters. Her grandmother’s sacrifices became a second source of purpose—proof that this journey is bigger than herself.

• You’re allowed to grow and evolve. Healing isn’t linear, and you don’t need to be perfect to move forward.

Memorable Quotes:

• “I had to look at myself and say—why am I doing this? Why does this hurt? And what can I do to not be here again?”
• “My daughter lit a fire under me. She made me want to be better—not just for me, but for her.”
• “I didn’t want to pass down broken beliefs. I wanted to pass down freedom.”
• “Having a why doesn’t mean life gets easier—it just means you have a reason to keep getting up.”

Challenge for Listeners:
Take time to reflect on your why.
📝 Journal about what (or who) keeps you going when life gets hard.
💭 Is it a person? A dream? A version of yourself you haven’t met yet?
Identify it, write it down, and revisit it often—especially on the hard days.

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