One of the hardest parts of fostering isn’t the paperwork, the home visits, or the endless court dates — it’s watching a child’s heart break when the people they love don’t show up.

In this episode of What the Foster!, we talk about what happens when bio parents disappoint — when visits are missed, promises are broken, and kids are left trying to make sense of it all. As foster parents, we’re caught between anger, compassion, and heartbreak — wanting to protect these kids, but knowing we can’t shield them from every letdown.

We’ll talk about how to comfort a child after a missed visit, how to manage your own emotions when frustration builds, and how to keep hope alive even when it feels like the system keeps failing them.
 
💬 In this episode, you’ll hear:

• How to validate a child’s emotions after a disappointment
• The balance between honesty and protection
• Why empathy doesn’t mean excusing behavior
• How to find peace when you care more than the parent seems to

“You can’t fix a parent by loving their child better — but you can show that child what consistency feels like.”

If you’ve ever sat beside a child waiting for someone who never came, this episode is for you.

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