Your destiny is determined by the choices you make. there's a difference between giving up and knowing when you've had enough. how long do you stay in a relationship when to know it's not working. take your stand speak up and refuse to let other hurts you throughout your lifetime some people will discredit you disrespect you and treat you poorly for no apparent reason at all. Don't consume yourself with trying to change them or win their approval. And don't make any space in your heart to hate them. You don't have control over what others think about you, but you do have control over how you decide to internalize their opinions. Leave them to their own judgments. Let people love you for who you are, and not for who they want you to be. Or let them walk away if they choose. They can't harm you either way; it's their understanding that is faulty not yours. Learn to say No. And learn to know when Enough is Enough.