In this deeply honest fireside-style episode, Nola cracks open a quiet truth so many high-achieving, high-caring people carry but rarely name out loud:

Why doesn’t it ever feel like we’ve done enough?

From spiraling over 25 Christmas books and first-class Santa train tickets to shrinking in professional rooms with “more traditional” lawyers, Nola explores how internalized pressure — not outside expectations — can make even a full, beautiful life feel insufficient.

She unpacks:

• ​ how childhood conditioning ties our worth to usefulness
• ​ why identity, culture, & comparison make “enough” feel impossible
• ​ the myth that we all have the same 24 hours
• ​ the fear behind wanting to give our kids magic
• ​ the grief of limited capacity
• ​ the truth that presence matters more than performance

This episode isn’t a five-step fix — it’s a human moment. A confession. A mirror.

A breath for anyone who keeps showing up with tenderness even when they’re tired.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re falling behind — or falling short — this conversation is the permission you didn’t know you needed.

You’re not too much.

You’re not behind.

And you are already enough.

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