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Finding Your Joy Spot - Episode: When Finding Your Voice Requires a Shovel
Episode Summary
In this episode, Leona explores why women often silence themselves, play small, or soften their edges in both personal and professional settings. Drawing from evolutionary psychology and her own Lioness Project research, she discusses how our ancient brain wiring still impacts how we show up today—and what we can do about it.
Leona shares practical reflection exercises to help listeners excavate old patterns, heal childhood wounds, and step into their full power with courage and compassion.
Key Topics Discussed
- Why women experience safety differently and how it impacts our behaviour
- The evolutionary wiring that keeps us playing small
- The difference between "pushing through" and doing the deeper excavating work
- How childhood experiences shape our adult patterns
- Practical exercises for healing and integration using Internal Family Systems principles
- Finding joy in courageous acts and making courage contagious
Reflection Exercises
Take these at your own pace—one a day, one a week, or all at once with strong coffee:
- Stream of consciousness writing: How did a difficult childhood situation impact you? Write for 2-5 minutes without stopping.
- Pattern recognition: What has that situation imprinted on you? How does it impact you now?
- Inner child work: Go back to that situation and comfort your younger self. Write from their voice—let them express their fear, sadness, or devastation.
- Compassionate acknowledgment: How has that moment shaped you? Write a compassionate note to that part of yourself.
- Strategy awareness: What did you learn from that pattern? What strategies did you develop to avoid feeling that way again?
- Integration: Welcome your younger self in. Remind them they don't need to keep you small anymore.
- Honouring: Ask how that younger part wants to be honoured—through play, creativity, or simple pleasures.
Resources Mentioned
Internal Family Systems Research:
IFS Institute
The Lioness Project:
www.thelionessproject.com
Connect with Leona
Website: www.leonadevinne.com
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: @thejoyspot
Facebook: @thejoyspot
Subscribe & Share
If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to Finding Your Joy Spot wherever you listen to podcasts. Share it with someone who might need to hear this message—remember, courage is contagious, and joy shared is always joy squared!
Quote of the Episode
"The digging is about cultivating the soil of our hearts and lives to make room for our truth to grow. And when one has the courage to do that, there's often a spot of joy in those courageous acts."
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By Leona deVinneFinding Your Joy Spot - Episode: When Finding Your Voice Requires a Shovel
Episode Summary
In this episode, Leona explores why women often silence themselves, play small, or soften their edges in both personal and professional settings. Drawing from evolutionary psychology and her own Lioness Project research, she discusses how our ancient brain wiring still impacts how we show up today—and what we can do about it.
Leona shares practical reflection exercises to help listeners excavate old patterns, heal childhood wounds, and step into their full power with courage and compassion.
Key Topics Discussed
- Why women experience safety differently and how it impacts our behaviour
- The evolutionary wiring that keeps us playing small
- The difference between "pushing through" and doing the deeper excavating work
- How childhood experiences shape our adult patterns
- Practical exercises for healing and integration using Internal Family Systems principles
- Finding joy in courageous acts and making courage contagious
Reflection Exercises
Take these at your own pace—one a day, one a week, or all at once with strong coffee:
- Stream of consciousness writing: How did a difficult childhood situation impact you? Write for 2-5 minutes without stopping.
- Pattern recognition: What has that situation imprinted on you? How does it impact you now?
- Inner child work: Go back to that situation and comfort your younger self. Write from their voice—let them express their fear, sadness, or devastation.
- Compassionate acknowledgment: How has that moment shaped you? Write a compassionate note to that part of yourself.
- Strategy awareness: What did you learn from that pattern? What strategies did you develop to avoid feeling that way again?
- Integration: Welcome your younger self in. Remind them they don't need to keep you small anymore.
- Honouring: Ask how that younger part wants to be honoured—through play, creativity, or simple pleasures.
Resources Mentioned
Internal Family Systems Research:
IFS Institute
The Lioness Project:
www.thelionessproject.com
Connect with Leona
Website: www.leonadevinne.com
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: @thejoyspot
Facebook: @thejoyspot
Subscribe & Share
If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe to Finding Your Joy Spot wherever you listen to podcasts. Share it with someone who might need to hear this message—remember, courage is contagious, and joy shared is always joy squared!
Quote of the Episode
"The digging is about cultivating the soil of our hearts and lives to make room for our truth to grow. And when one has the courage to do that, there's often a spot of joy in those courageous acts."