“You can either be right, or you can be one, but you can’t be both”. Our mentors were talking to us about a frustrating argument, and we were both digging in.

They were right, of course, but we struggled to put it into practice. It would not be the last time either. Like just this past weekend.

The argument was over handling a distressed toddler. It’s a well-worn path for us, and now it’s playing out through our grandchildren.

https://smartloving.org/when-i-am-winning-we-are-usually-losing/