No one wants to write a story like this. For about half a dozen reasons. Most significantly, not wanting to be labeled a glory whore. But I know there are real people out there, with real problems with both power dynamics and sexual assault, trying to get through their days getting over something shitty that happened to them. I also know that very few of them are Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu world champions who feel pretty OK with their present place in space. Like me. But this is not about that.