In 2 Thessalonians 1:7, Paul says God will pay back trouble to those who trouble you...and give relief to you who are troubled. That's where your focus needs to be. By the way, that word "relief" in the Greek is "anacin." How appropriate is that? When you trust God to settle a score that needs to be settled in his way according to his wisdom, it's a huge relief, like the world's worst headache has suddenly gone away.