Too many people are suffering in silence—confused, heartbroken, and wondering if it’s really them that’s the problem.

In this week’s episode, we uncover the hidden signs of emotional abuse that are often brushed off, romanticized, or completely misunderstood. Emotional abuse doesn’t always scream. Sometimes, it whispers, jokes, or wraps itself in concern.

Here’s what we talk about:

* The shocking truth that nearly 1 in 2 women and 1 in 3 men in the U.S. experience psychological aggression by an intimate partner

* How emotional abuse can look like concern, charm, or even romance at first

* The mind-warping impact of gaslighting—and how it erodes your confidence and memory

* The difference between helpful feedback and constant criticism

* How control often shows up disguised as love or protection

* Why so many survivors say they feel like ghosts in their own lives

I’ve worked with countless women who didn’t even realize what was happening until they were deeply entangled—questioning everything from their worth to their sanity.

Here are the 5 key signs we unpack in this episode:

* Gaslighting

* Constant criticism

* Control disguised as concern

* Emotional withholding

* Walking on eggshells

These are more than just red flags. They are signs that your emotional safety is at risk.

Whether you’re in a relationship now or still healing from a past one, this episode is a must-listen. It’s time to reclaim your voice, your truth, and your power.

🔗 Book a free 30-minute call if you’re ready to explore your next steps toward healing.💜 Book a Free Discovery Call: https://www.susiemillerwendel.com/coaching-services/book-a-session

With care,Susie

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