It is difficult to be work with someone when there is chatter in your mind about how incorrect they are. It’s a judgement that you really don’t have any control over because it’s already on top of you before you can give it some space. If you can’t see entirely all the causes of everything then you could ask the question “what is that?” As soon as you come to a conclusion you shut down on the awareness.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2qlE8VaSP10