I was listening to an interview where a gentleman was talking about how he lost his father when he was two years old. He continued to talk about what an amazing man his father was, and he knew this because the people who knew his father frequently say great things about him. One needs to be a real cold-hearted ass to say bad things about a dead man to the child of the deceased. It's not that people lie; it's the use of selective memory combined with social intelligence that leads people to say o. . . See the complete description at http://www.uncomfortable-ideas.com/tools/bg/Bo/ideas