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Is your “head-down, get it done” mode quietly draining intimacy at home?
 In this raw episode, Patrick unpacks how black-and-white thinking can turn a great partner into a distant roommate, and how to fix it without giving your spouse whiplash.

You’ll hear the real story behind an iconic event that exposed a hidden belief: “If I level up, I’ll lose my person.” We talk through what that belief does to your nervous system, your time, and your marriage, and how to rewrite it so you can win at business and love.

In this episode:

• The two beliefs sabotaging success + intimacy (and how to replace them)
• The Whiplash Rule: how to uplevel without blindsiding your spouse
• The 4 questions to reset the connection fast
• Why “date your spouse” still works (and how to do it when you’re slammed)
• How inner-child work stops the quiet self-sabotage that kills momentum

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✅ Upgrade Your Language – Get the words to finally describe what’s happening inside you, so you can change it instead of stuffing it down.

✅ Release Hidden Scripts – Identify old beliefs (“I’m not enough,” “success = sacrifice”) that secretly drive overwork, and replace them with empowering ones.

✅ Do More With Less Energy – Free up mental bandwidth so you can lead, love, and live without grinding yourself into the ground.

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