Encounters at the Well

When the Church Turns Away: A Pastor's Wife's Story of Infidelity, Shunning, and Grace


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What do you do when the person who breaks your heart is a church leader — and instead of support, you are met with silence and rejection?
If you have ever been wounded by the Church or felt abandoned when you needed compassion, this episode will speak directly to your heart.

In today’s episode of Encounters at the Well, host Amy Donathan sits down with Joni Pauley, a pastor’s wife who walked through the pain of her husband’s infidelity and was left to silently carry the shame and grief alone. Joni vulnerably shares how Jesus met her in the darkness, healed what people could not, and led her into a life of restoration and ministry.

They talk openly about:

• The spiritual and emotional impact of infidelity in church leadership
 • How churches often mishandle moral failure and leave the innocent wounded
 • What Scripture teaches about true restoration and grace
 • How God proved faithful when people failed

If you have ever questioned your place in the Body of Christ because of church hurt, this conversation will remind you that Jesus never turned away the brokenhearted. He still sees. He still heals.

A gospel invitation is shared at the end for anyone ready to begin a relationship with Jesus.

Connect with Joni Pauley
 Website: www.jonipauley.com

Podcast: Processing Infidelity in the Church (Spotify + Apple Podcasts)

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Encounters at the WellBy Amy Donathan