We don't fight. We used to, but we don't fight anymore. We figured that out in the beginning of our marriage and thank God we did early on.

However, we certainly disagree, we argue and from time to time, we get out of sorts with each other. Most often, we catch it early, lay it on the table, have good discussion and continue on our merry way. Usually that's the case. But sometimes, it sneaks below our radar and wreaks havoc. And there's a typical cause to that.

Checkpoint: How well are we filling each other's love tank?