With apologies for the title, this post should say when one person in a relationship earns more than another, because as we know this issue is a common source of potential imbalance in a relationship that can lead to a number of issues.  We do hear about a fragile male ego, but the truth is while that may have something to do with some couples' clashes it is really about self imposed and societal expectations of roles within a relationship that is the cause of the division.  Alvean and Doug discuss the traps we might create for ourselves and how to find a healthy balance that recognizes the value of the contributions both partners bring to each other.  Hint, it isn't only about the cash!  For a full transcript of this episode, click here:LL08