RAISING EQ

When Trying Our Best Isn’t Enough: How Owning Our Part Strengthens Connection


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In today’s episode of Raising EQ, we dive into one of the most powerful yet overlooked skills in parenting: owning our part. Even when we truly try our best, it doesn’t always land the way our children experience it—and that gap between intention and impact can shape how safe, seen, and understood they feel in our presence.

We explore what research shows about the impact of parental repair, including how acknowledging our missteps and validating our children’s perspectives can support healthier emotional development, strengthen attachment, and increase trust. 

You’ll hear why humility is a parenting superpower, how to set your own feelings aside in moments that matter, and how simple, honest ownership can turn conflict into connection.

If you’re ready to raise emotionally intelligent kids—and grow right alongside them—this episode gives you the tools, language, and mindset to start today.

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RAISING EQBy Dr. Holly Symons