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If you’ve ever sat in your car dreading the walk into work, this one’s for you.
This Support Pause holds space for the Black woman who’s exhausted — not because she isn’t strong, but because she’s carrying too much alone. You’re doing what you have to do. You’re showing up in a job that drains you, and you can’t afford to walk away. That’s real. And you don’t have to pretend it’s not costing you.
This isn’t a fix. It’s not advice. It’s a pause. A moment to tell the truth about how heavy it’s been. A reminder that you’re not broken for feeling it. And you’re not the only one.
If you’re an exhausted Black woman at work, this pause is yours.
Got a story about what it’s cost you to be the strong one? We’re collecting real, lived stories for the Black Women Storytelling Series, and we want to hear yours.
Submit your story here → https://forms.gle/VsfFMjNjMt6eVLJp7
Come back every weekday for a new Support Pause — short, soul-soothing reflections made just for you.
About Shades of Strong®
Shades of Strong® is a space where Black women come to breathe, reflect, and reclaim strength without the struggle. Support Pauses are short, soulful reminders that you don’t have to carry it all alone. New episodes drop every weekday.
Let’s Stay Connected:
Shirl is the creator of Support Languages™ and host of Shades of Strong® — a movement shifting the narrative from Strong Black Woman to Supported Black Woman™ through language, rest, and real support.
By ShirlIf you’ve ever sat in your car dreading the walk into work, this one’s for you.
This Support Pause holds space for the Black woman who’s exhausted — not because she isn’t strong, but because she’s carrying too much alone. You’re doing what you have to do. You’re showing up in a job that drains you, and you can’t afford to walk away. That’s real. And you don’t have to pretend it’s not costing you.
This isn’t a fix. It’s not advice. It’s a pause. A moment to tell the truth about how heavy it’s been. A reminder that you’re not broken for feeling it. And you’re not the only one.
If you’re an exhausted Black woman at work, this pause is yours.
Got a story about what it’s cost you to be the strong one? We’re collecting real, lived stories for the Black Women Storytelling Series, and we want to hear yours.
Submit your story here → https://forms.gle/VsfFMjNjMt6eVLJp7
Come back every weekday for a new Support Pause — short, soul-soothing reflections made just for you.
About Shades of Strong®
Shades of Strong® is a space where Black women come to breathe, reflect, and reclaim strength without the struggle. Support Pauses are short, soulful reminders that you don’t have to carry it all alone. New episodes drop every weekday.
Let’s Stay Connected:
Shirl is the creator of Support Languages™ and host of Shades of Strong® — a movement shifting the narrative from Strong Black Woman to Supported Black Woman™ through language, rest, and real support.