This episode is about conditional relationships — the people who loved me when I was easy, and the people who left when I stopped being.

I talk about:

• The people I met when I had nothing left to give

• The people I lost when I had nothing left to give

• The ones who came back, then disappeared again

• The ones who left when I started taking responsibility

• And the ones who loved me through every version

This episode is also a reminder that relationships of any kind should not come with conditions.

And if someone only shows up for certain versions of you,

they do not deserve a seat at your table.

This is a reflection on how love changes when we change — and what it means to finally choose yourself when others no longer choose you.