Imagine going out with a man for three months. He texts you nearly every day. He sees you nearly every weekend. He’s really sweet. He compliments you often. The sex is great. There’s only one problem: you have no idea if you’re a couple. And while you want to say something, you’re afraid that saying something might mean the end of your relationship. So you say nothing and keep sleeping with a man who acts kind of like a boyfriend but is most certainly not your boyfriend. This isn’t the relationship you imagined.