Man in the Gap

When You’re Afraid of Getting Attached


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“Don’t get too attached.”


They warned me.

And I ignored them.

And I got attached anyway.


And yes — it hurt.


But you know what would’ve hurt more?

Keeping my heart guarded.

Withholding love.

Treating a child like a project instead of a person.


Attachment is painful.

But detachment is devastating.


Because these kids aren’t looking for temporary care.

They’re looking for someone who sees them.

Chooses them.

Feels with them.


Yes — I’ll cry when they leave.

But that grief is holy.

Because it means I loved well.


And that’s the whole point.

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Man in the GapBy Dwelling Place