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When You're Confident in the Wrong Things
The Confidence Myth
Most people think confidence is something you either have or don’t.
But that’s not what I see.
I work with incredibly accomplished people (leaders, founders, executives), people whose resumes are intimidating even to me. And still, after they step off a stage I've hired them to speak on, they ask:
"Was that okay?"
I guess you could call it imposter syndrome. I call it Career Dysmorphia.
Career Dysmorphia is when:
-Your success is real.
-Your accomplishments are undeniable.
-Your experience is deep.
And yet...you still can't see yourself clearly. It's like looking into the mirror and seeing an outdated version of yourself. In this Pep Talk I share a story about losing 100 pounds in my 20s. I didn't recognize myself in mirrors after the weight loss. And today, I find it's a powerful metaphor for what many high achievers experience professionally.
The Visibility Trigger
The more you open yourself to a bigger life, a more visible life, the more your confidence can take a hit. Whether you're posting your ideas, writing a book, or stepping onto a stage.
That's when all the confidence you thought you had can disappear.
Misplaced Confidence
One of the most powerful ideas in this episode breaks open a truth that once you see it, you can't unsee it. You already have confidence, but not always in the right things. When you align yourself to your center and activate the voice of soul in your work and life, that's when confidence becomes natural.
The Invitation
This episode of Ideas Love Community is not asking you to become someone new. It's asking you to:
-See yourself clearly.
-Own what you've already done.
-Choose confidence intentionally.
Because there's only one thing standing in your way.
Key Quotes
“You can achieve so much and still not see yourself clearly.”
“All of us have this… ‘Do you like me? Is this okay?’”
“The only thing standing between you and what you want is confidence.”
“I was confident in lack.”
“You get to choose where your confidence is.”
“When you tap the voice of your soul… confidence is easy.”
Ready to be HUGE?
I coach extraordinary voices.
I can help you find your mission and message, build your thought-leadership platform, and launch your voice into the world.
I earned the nickname "speaker whisperer" as a conference designer so I created a whole new event to help you get in front of the trail angels who can open doors to bigger stages and broader impact at the Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest. The Gathering includes information and inspiration on public speaking and getting seen and a pitch fest...(think Shark Tank!) Come for the learning or raise your hand to pitch the head of all TED conferences, literary and speaker agents, entertainment execs, and more.
Follow me on LinkedIn.
Sign up for my newsletter.
Apply for coaching.
Get on the waitlist for the next Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest.
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By Jacquelyn Fletcher JohnsonThe Confidence Myth
Most people think confidence is something you either have or don’t.
But that’s not what I see.
I work with incredibly accomplished people (leaders, founders, executives), people whose resumes are intimidating even to me. And still, after they step off a stage I've hired them to speak on, they ask:
"Was that okay?"
I guess you could call it imposter syndrome. I call it Career Dysmorphia.
Career Dysmorphia is when:
-Your success is real.
-Your accomplishments are undeniable.
-Your experience is deep.
And yet...you still can't see yourself clearly. It's like looking into the mirror and seeing an outdated version of yourself. In this Pep Talk I share a story about losing 100 pounds in my 20s. I didn't recognize myself in mirrors after the weight loss. And today, I find it's a powerful metaphor for what many high achievers experience professionally.
The Visibility Trigger
The more you open yourself to a bigger life, a more visible life, the more your confidence can take a hit. Whether you're posting your ideas, writing a book, or stepping onto a stage.
That's when all the confidence you thought you had can disappear.
Misplaced Confidence
One of the most powerful ideas in this episode breaks open a truth that once you see it, you can't unsee it. You already have confidence, but not always in the right things. When you align yourself to your center and activate the voice of soul in your work and life, that's when confidence becomes natural.
The Invitation
This episode of Ideas Love Community is not asking you to become someone new. It's asking you to:
-See yourself clearly.
-Own what you've already done.
-Choose confidence intentionally.
Because there's only one thing standing in your way.
Key Quotes
“You can achieve so much and still not see yourself clearly.”
“All of us have this… ‘Do you like me? Is this okay?’”
“The only thing standing between you and what you want is confidence.”
“I was confident in lack.”
“You get to choose where your confidence is.”
“When you tap the voice of your soul… confidence is easy.”
Ready to be HUGE?
I coach extraordinary voices.
I can help you find your mission and message, build your thought-leadership platform, and launch your voice into the world.
I earned the nickname "speaker whisperer" as a conference designer so I created a whole new event to help you get in front of the trail angels who can open doors to bigger stages and broader impact at the Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest. The Gathering includes information and inspiration on public speaking and getting seen and a pitch fest...(think Shark Tank!) Come for the learning or raise your hand to pitch the head of all TED conferences, literary and speaker agents, entertainment execs, and more.
Follow me on LinkedIn.
Sign up for my newsletter.
Apply for coaching.
Get on the waitlist for the next Gateway Gathering & Pitch Fest.