This is the episode no one wants to hear and everyone needs to.

What if you're the common denominator in all your failed relationships?

What if it's not that you keep attracting the wrong people but it's that you keep BEING the wrong person for partnership?

What if YOU are the problem?

In this episode, Joan walks you through the uncomfortable truth that most people avoid: sometimes, you're not unlucky in love. You're the pattern. She breaks down the signs that you're the problem, why we resist this truth so hard, and why owning it isn't about shame. It's about AGENCY.

This isn't a self-flagellation session. This is about getting your power back. Because when you stop blaming your exes and start examining YOUR role, you can actually change the outcome.

The question isn't "Am I broken?" It's "Am I willing to see my role and do something different?"

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