when you are on your embodiment journey doing the deep inner work, it is best to not even focus on "where all the good men are." set your intention to be with one one day or to connect with them, and then release it and let Life handle it. focus instead on your own joy, your own embodiment, your own pleasure. if you are too busy focusing on where your man is or where all the amazing men are, you will lose sight of your embodiment and empowerment, which is the most important thing.

the most important advice i can give you is just to be you fully, enjoy your life fully as a single woman, find out what you like and enjoy and what fulfills you, and just be fully on YOUR path. from that space of fulfillment and clarity and purpose, you are magnetic to a man who is also on a similar path, and he will find you. but don't even focus on that. just focus on being in your purpose, your pleasure, and on your path.

another important aspect of this is that when you start to no longer resonate with dusty men or patriarchal men, the most important thing you can do is reject those types of men. that allows you to no longer "see them" on a day to day basis. misogynistic or not fully embodied men would hit on me all of the time or want to be friends with me during my celibacy, and I would just reject reject reject. this clears space for wonderful men to step in, and it also tells Life I'm not longer willing to settle.

my video on 2 years of celibacy: https://youtu.be/yu2O-SD9Gqg

coaching with me: https://www.victoriadevall.com/book-coaching

men to follow that help you see that good men exist:

1. @byermeas
2. @lorinkrenn
3. @dominickq
4. @mantalks
5. @matt_cama
6. @john_wineland
7. @holistic.life.navigation
8. recently i connected with @eliburen, he is amazing!
9. there's so many others, I'll leave it at this list!!

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