“Where are all the godly men?” is a real question—but it might not be the right one. In this episode, Alana reframes the search by focusing on alignment, readiness, and becoming. Before God brings two people together, He prepares two hearts. We walk through spiritual, emotional, relational, and purpose readiness; the difference between positioning to be seen vs. to be recognized (Ruth/Boaz); and how to renew your mind so peace replaces pressure while you wait.

You’ll learn:

• Why alignment with God precedes alignment with a man
• The difference between desire and readiness (spiritual, emotional, relational, purposeful)
• How Ruth’s life positioned her to be recognized, not just noticed
• What true beauty looks like (1 Peter 3:3–4; strength under control, peace over performance)
• Practical rhythms to “renew your mind” (Rom. 12:2) so you can wait well

Scripture references: Prov. 3:5–6; Matt. 6:33; Gal. 5:22–23; Ps. 37:4; Ruth 2:11–12; 1 Pet. 3:3–4; Prov. 31:25; Rom. 12:2

✅ Checkpoint Challenge (from the episode)

Do an Alignment Inventory with God. Ask Him to show you one thing in each area—and take one step this week to realign.

1. Spiritually: Where am I trusting God—and where am I still trying to control the outcome?
2. Emotionally: Is there a wound or a fear I still need to surrender?
3. Relationally: Am I showing love, forgiveness, and healthy boundaries with the people already in my life?
4. Purposefully: Am I walking in what God called me to do—or waiting for someone else to give me permission?
5. ➡️ Then write one step for each area to realign your heart with God this week.

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